Anthropologie Learns a Lesson in How Not to Treat Breastfeeding Moms

It’s World Breastfeeding Month, but Anthropologie doesn’t want to see your boobs.

Ingrid Wiese Hesson claims she was unceremoniously escorted off an Anthropologie sales floor and into a stock-room bathroom for breastfeeding her baby. (Remind you of any ads?) Here’s the email she sent to the company, and then posted to Facebook:

I’m writing to share an unfortunate event that occurred at the Beverly Hills anthropologie location. As a long time Anthro member and loyalist, it seemed natural to do my first postpartum shopping outing at Anthroologie. Anxious to use my birthday discount, I brought my six week old infant along and we both smiled as I walked away from the register with $700 worth of Breastfeeding friendly clothing. But baby began to cry and I found a chair at the back of the store and sat down to feed him. Imagine my surprise when the manager Meredith approached, “I’m here to escort you to the ladies room where you can finish feeding your baby.” Shocked. I unlatched the infant, he began to cry, and we did the walk of shame to the stock room bathroom. There was nothing but a toilet in the room. “Sorry we don’t have a chair.” I left the store embarrassed and called back to talk to Meredith and verify what I had just experienced. “I thought you and the other customers would be more comfortable off the sales floor,” she explained. Please inform Meredith that CA law grants me the right to Breastfeed in public. As a store that caters to women, I would hope your staff would be more understanding. Meredith said, “we must be fair to all the customers, not just moms.” Meredith, moms are customers too. At least the many women that have already liked my Facebook post in the past hour seem to think so. Shame on you anthropologie.

Hesson’s story has been circulating through Facebook, Twitter and Instagram like wildfire. The Anthropologie manager’s actions were not just unwise, they were also in violation of Hesson’s legal rights. From the California Civil Code: “Notwithstanding any other provision of law, a mother may breastfeed her child in any location, public or private, except the private home or residence of another, where the mother and the child are otherwise authorized to be present.”

People have been tweeting and leaving messages on Anthropologie’s Facebook page, threatening to boycott. A nurse-in at the specific Beverly Hills Anthropologie was arranged:

Finally, Anthropologie responded with a somewhat vague PR cut-and-paste, saying:

We are disappointed to hear of the unfortunate experience that occurred in our Beverly Hills store. As a company comprised of hundreds of mothers, which seeks to put the customer first, we celebrate women in all of their life stages. Given our staff’s dedication to providing exceptional customer service, we welcome this as an opportunity to enhance our customer experience by providing further training and education for our staff. Our aim is that all women—all mothers—be comfortable in our stores and delight in their relationship with Anthropologie.

The craziest part? All of this has gone down in the past 23 hours. Technology is wild and impressive, but somehow people are still asking me to fax them documents? Weird.

Photo via Flickr.



Is This a Pro-Breastfeeding Ad Campaign or Soft-Core Porn? You Decide (SFW)

Activists and health advocates are rightly upset over this poorly executed campaign to get Mexico City mothers to breastfeed. It shows topless celebrities with a carefully placed banner running right over their breasts that says, “No les des la espalda, dale pecho,” which translates to, “Don’t turn your back on them, give them your breast.”

The first problem is how overtly sexualized the women are. The act of breastfeeding is not a sexual act. It vacillates between being painful, annoying, exhausting, inconvenient and heartrendingly sublime. The sexualization of breastfeeding is a large part of the reason so many people shame mothers for breastfeeding in public, and a factor in low breastfeeding rates. (This campaign by two students nicely illustrates this part of the problem.)

Let’s be clear: Women are not failing to breastfeed because there aren’t enough topless celebrities out there. As health advocates point out, the decision not to breastfeed is part of a complicated series of factors, including lack of paid time off and family support. To imply it’s all up to the women unfairly blames them when they are unable to breastfeed.

I’m a huge advocate of how advertising can change behavior, but these ads are a waste of money. The good news is, the campaign also involves opening 92 lactation rooms throughout the city, and they’ve removed the topless images from the city’s website.

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Impressive Student Ads Memorably Show Moms Exiled to Toilet Stalls to Breastfeed

Do you like eating in public restrooms? Or does the sight of a toilet and the acrid scent of piss ruin your appetite?

Johnathan Wenske and Kris Haro, both juniors at the University of North Texas, created these nicely made student ads depicting young mothers breastfeeding on toilets—to support bill HB1706 in the Texas legislature, which would protect mothers from harassment and discrimination when they breastfeed their children in public.

The creatives were inspired by the story of a woman who was harassed for breastfeeding in a Target. They decided to shoot three young mothers, perhaps because young moms are least likely to breastfeed. To their credit, the ads don't try to shock. They merely capture the everyday situation many mothers face "when nurture calls." They don't go overboard by art directing a dirty bathroom or even a poorly lit bathroom, but the images are still powerful because breastfeeding in a toilet stall, even a reasonably clean toilet stall, is disgusting.

The three simple headlines are pretty perfect, too.

Seeing breastfeeding in another light—from the perspective of moms forced to nurture an infant in a toilet stall—might help more people to see that the cost of their comfort is another's discomfort. And they might even decide to look away instead of having their say.

See the ads below. Via Yahoo.